Manners are Important

Manners are Important
Do's and Don'ts (Taboos) in

England

UK

In England...

• Do stand in line:
  In

  England

  we like to form orderly queues (standing in line) and wait patiently for our turn e.g.. boarding a bus. It is usual to queue when required, and expected that you will take your correct turn and not push in front. 'Queue jumping' is frowned upon.
• Do take your hat off when you go indoors (men only)
  It is impolite for men to wear hats indoors including restuarants and churches.
• Do say "Excuse Me":
  If someone is blocking your way and you would like them to move say excuse me and they will move out of your way.
• Do Pay as you Go:
  Pay for drinks as you order them in pubs and other types of bars.
• Do say "Please" and "Thank-you":
  It is very good manners to say "please" and "thank-you". It is considered rude if you don't. Whenever You will notice in

  England

  that we say 'thank you' a lot.
• Do cover your Mouth:
  When yawning or coughing always cover your mouth with your hand.
• Do Shake Hands:
  When you are first introduced to someone, shake their right hand with your own right hand.
• Do say sorry: 
  If you accidentally bump into someone, say 'sorry'. They probably will too, even if it was your fault! This is a habit and can be seen as very amusing by an 'outsider'.
• Do Smile:
  A smiling face is a welcoming face.
• Do Drive on the left side of the road

In

England

...

Do not greet people with a kiss:
We only kiss people who are close friends and relatives.

Avoid talking loudly in public

It is impolite to stare at anyone in public.
Privacy is highly regarded.

Do not pick your nose in public:
We are disgusted by this. If your nostrils need de-bugging, use a handkerchief.

Avoid doing gestures such as backslapping Do not burp in public and hugging
This is only done among close friends.

Do not spit.
Spitting in the street is considered to be very bad mannered.

You may feel better by burping loudly after eating or drinking, but other people will not! If you can not stop a burp from bursting out, then cover your mouth with your hand and say 'excuse me' afterwards.

Do not pass wind in public
Now how can we say this politely? Let's say that you want to pass wind. What do you do? Go somewhere private and let it out. If you accidently pass wind in company say 'pardon me'.

Belinda sent sent us an email on the indelicate subject of 'passing wind' in public:

"The expression 'pardon me' would be considered by the upper classes to be rather common. When I was growing up, I was told by my mother, at school and by my aunt who was a nanny to an aristocratic family that the correct thing to do if this happens is to carry on as if nothing's happened and for the entire company to ignore it completely as if they've never noticed.  ( even if it's very obvious).  I think young people nowadays would probably be more inclined to laugh it off but certainly the older generation in 'polite company' would never, ever draw attention to the incident by apologising.  Basically the advice is say 'excuse me' for mouth burbs, ignore bottom burps."

"I hope that my input may save one of your students from committing a faux pas if asked to afternoon tea in

Britain

!"

It is impolite to speak with your mouth full of food

Do not ask personal or intimate questions
We like our privacy. Please do not ask questions such as "How much money do you earn?" "How much do you weigh?" or "Why aren't you married?".

Never eat off a knife when having a meal.

In

England

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Women in

Britain

are entitled to equal respect and status with men in all areas of life and tend to have more independence and responsibility than in some other cultures. Women are usually independent and accustomed to entering public places unaccompanied. It is usual for women to go out and about on their own as well as with friends. Men and women mix freely.

• It is ok for women to eat alone in a restaurant.
• It is ok for women to wander around on their own.
• It is ok for women to drink beer.